Monday, February 10, 2014

Hello old friend, I'm back once again

I've always prided myself on being the type of person who doesn't give up on people.  I don't view people as disposable and believe that people are put in your life for a reason.   I think I've learned a new lesson.

My lesson is that some people are put in your life to help you to learn how to better love and respect yourself.

No one deserves to be ignored.
No one deserves to be disrespected.
No one deserves to be made to feel as though they don't matter.
No one deserves to be made to feel they are unimportant.
No one deserves to give of their heart freely with nothing in return.

The list goes on.  

I allowed myself, just for a brief moment to feel like I've given up on someone,  when the whole time the person I gave up on was me.  I completely forgot my own worth.

While the death of any relationship is always hard,  I will be focusing on all the positives I brought to the table and remember that it's not a "me" issue.

My only sadness is that this person is lost and continues to lose things that were placed in their life to help them heal.  I truly, with all my heart,  wish them well.

And now that I'm free,  now that the weight is lifted from carrying their pains,  now that I've rediscovered that I really LIKE the person I am......

Anything is possible again

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